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Friday, August 27, 2010

The Best Job in the World!

I love it when middle schoolers or high schoolers ask, "What do you do all day?". They can't imagine what a "stay-at-home mom" could possibly do to keep herself busy all day. "Do you just play with Tatum?" They think "it's the life". And, honestly, it is! I LOVE being a stay at home mom! I keep myself busy with cleaning (no, my house hasn't learned how to clean itself, yet), laundry, hanging and folding diapers, making lunch, cooking dinner, filling out paper work, going on walks, playing with Tatum, play dates, phone calls, grocery shopping, etc. I love making my house a home.
I definitely feel like I have "the best of both worlds", as well. Recently, I started working, a few nights a week, at a restaurant. The hours are perfect. I usually leave after dinner, and get home no later than 9:30. I only miss a few hours with T (which has made perfect "Papa/Tatum" time), plus I get to spend the evenings with my husband. (The extra cash is a bonus, as well!) It is the perfect combination for me (and our family!).
I love being a stay at home mom, and I wouldn't trade it for anything!



<The best employer, ever! :)

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Cloth diaper "shout out"!

When I was pregnant with T, I did a ton of research on cloth diapering. I decided that I would wait until after T was born to actually go through with it, though. I didn't know how many or which sizes I would need. Plus, I wanted to get the whole "new mommy" thing under my belt before I introduced something new. I knew that the last thing I would want to be doing with a newborn was laundry! I am glad that I waited, But now that I'm doing it, I love cloth diapering! :)

What first caught my attention with cloth diapering was how much money I would be saving in the long run. (B was on board with that, as well!) I, also, hated buying diapers and throwing them away just days later! What a waste (literally).

I was overwhelmed, at first, when I first started doing research. The only experience I had with cloth diapering was when I nannied in Chicago. I would just throw the diapers in a big trash can, and they would "magically" disappear and reappear (all clean) 2x a week! (Ok, a cloth diapering company would pick them up and wash them). I knew that wouldn't be an option for us, though. There were so many options... dry pail, wet pail, diaper sprayers, to bleach or not to bleach, all in ones, all in twos, pockets, wool, snaps, velcro, one size, prefolds, bamboo, organic, etc. That doesn't even include the different brands! Once I determined that I wanted to stick with one size cloth diapers, I started to read reviews.

In my research, the most reviewed and best reviewed for what I wanted seemed to be the BumGenius 3.0s. I found a great website which offered a "30 day trial period". Basically, if I decided that cloth diapering wasn't for me, I would be able to return them all for a full refund! I ordered 8 diapers @ roughly 17.95/each. With 8, I have to wash everyday, but that works for me as a stay at home mom.

In the mean time, I am a "test mom" for a new cloth diapering company coming out called RagaBabe. T and I have tested the AIO (all-in-ones) and the Organic 2-Step (AI2). The AIOs are SO easy. There is no stuffing or snapping of inserts. You literally just wash, dry and wear (Well, T does the wearing, of course!)
One of the problems I've encountered with BG is that at 23lbs, T has almost already outgrown their "one-size". Hmmm.... What I've LOVED about the RagaBabe Organic 2-Step is that they come in adjustable sizes. For example, because T is a little on the chunkier/heavier size, I've used a size 2 for her, and that size will definitely last her until she's potty trained. Woo hoo! Also, you can purchase separate inserts for the Organic 2-Step, so you can basically get 3 diapers for under $50! (You can reuse the cover a few times without washing!) These diapers are also supposed to last through two children! I, obviously, haven't experienced that. However, the quality of these far surpass the quality of BG, in my opinion. (My BGs are already showing some major wear and tear.)
 
There are, obviously, many benefits of cloth diapering. It's definitely an investment up front, but in the long run, it's totally worth it! Plus, look how happy your baby could be...
 

Saturday, August 21, 2010

A Tribute to My Twenties

As I look back on my life (yes, I am now approaching my late twenties at age 26), my twenties have definitely been my favorite decade. Ida (our new foreign exchange student from Norway) and I took a little tour through Maquoketa High School earlier this week. As I was walking through each hallway, to each class room, I had NO desire to be back in high school. Yeah, it was fun knowing that you would see your friends everyday and not having a ton of responsibilities, but I would never choose to go back. For those who told me, "Your high school years are the best years of your life", I'm glad your high school experience was awesome (and I'm sorry that the rest of your later years were not). However, my years in high school were not "the best years", and for that, I am thankful! So far, I've LOVED my twenties. Some of the highlights...

  • getting married to my best friend
  • having one amazing daughter
  • buying our own home
  • going to college (I wish I appreciated that more, at the time)
  • living in Chicago
  • living in Iowa (that took a lot for me to type!)
  • hosting a foreign exchange student (now that B and I are a combined age of 50, haha)
  • and many more!!
 

I am so thankful to God for all the ways He has blessed me! I'm going to make a conscience effort to not fear getting older, but embrace it. Despite what our culture says, it is a blessing from the Lord, and it's not up to me to prevent it from happening....